{"id":11778,"date":"2025-04-20T10:44:06","date_gmt":"2025-04-20T17:44:06","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/neuroticattorney.com\/blog\/?p=11778"},"modified":"2025-04-20T10:44:06","modified_gmt":"2025-04-20T17:44:06","slug":"lets-go-find-us-some-gators","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/neuroticattorney.com\/blog\/?p=11778","title":{"rendered":"Let&#8217;s Go Find Us Some Gators"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>I&#8217;m here. I made it. I write this one from the French Quarter. It feels un-fucking-believable to be back. I got in yesterday, and after checking in, I embarked upon a nice overview stroll of the Quarter, and I even enjoyed a carriage ride, which was nice, reminiscing and refreshing my memory.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I do not have one bit of negative. My last time or two trying to attend the French Quarter Festival were rough. Such a dark period. I couldn&#8217;t stay. I ended up grabbing a flight and heading home the next day. I can&#8217;t even tell you what was so dark about that time, except to say I was a lost soul.<\/p>\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\">\n<figure class=\"aligncenter size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"1012\" src=\"https:\/\/neuroticattorney.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/04\/IMG_1622-1024x1012.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-11819\" srcset=\"https:\/\/neuroticattorney.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/04\/IMG_1622-1024x1012.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/neuroticattorney.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/04\/IMG_1622-300x296.jpg 300w, https:\/\/neuroticattorney.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/04\/IMG_1622-768x759.jpg 768w, https:\/\/neuroticattorney.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/04\/IMG_1622.jpg 1242w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-audio\"><audio controls src=\"https:\/\/neuroticattorney.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/04\/lukpen.mp3\"><\/audio><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\">JD McPherson; &#8216;Lucky Penny&#8217;<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>Honestly, I was no more lost than I am now, but I was without a vision of the future; I was without a plan of there being a future; and, worse yet, I was without any desire of there even being a future. I just fucking didn&#8217;t care anymore at that time. It all reminds me of my cross-country rides.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The concept was simple. Take a motorcycle ride around the country, find a nice grassy hill around sunset, like those golden hills in the Dakotas. Take a seat, a moment to pause for some self-reflection, then open my backpack, take out the gun, and pull the trigger on a promise to finish it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-align-center\">&#8212;ooOoo&#8212;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Magical. Laying there in bed naked, stretching, recoiling from the light that&#8217;s starting to break through the double doors leading to the balcony.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Those intrusive sounds. Those dear civil servants. Those mornings after. When a cop wakes up the sleepers, so a man can power wash sidewalks.<\/p>\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\">\n<figure class=\"aligncenter size-full\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"1024\" src=\"https:\/\/neuroticattorney.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/04\/IMG_1648.webp\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-11827\" srcset=\"https:\/\/neuroticattorney.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/04\/IMG_1648.webp 1024w, https:\/\/neuroticattorney.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/04\/IMG_1648-300x300.webp 300w, https:\/\/neuroticattorney.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/04\/IMG_1648-150x150.webp 150w, https:\/\/neuroticattorney.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/04\/IMG_1648-768x768.webp 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-audio\"><audio controls src=\"https:\/\/neuroticattorney.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/04\/sexwkend.mp3\"><\/audio><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\">Scoundrels; &#8216;Sexy Weekend&#8217;<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>Imagination. Seeing her lay there naked, the sheets only covering mostly her legs, with her breasts exposed, her nipples hard from a morning chill.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>She stretches and twists, her eyes are still closed, but with a smile that deepens as she extends her legs and stretches her arms above her head.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-align-center\">&#8212;ooOoo&#8212;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\">\n<p class=\"has-text-align-center\">&#8220;If I had a soul to sell, I&#8217;d but some time to talk to my brain cell.&#8221;<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\">\n<figure class=\"aligncenter size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"898\" src=\"https:\/\/neuroticattorney.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/04\/Screenshot-2025-04-20-at-8.03.16\u202fAM-1024x898.jpeg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-11829\" srcset=\"https:\/\/neuroticattorney.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/04\/Screenshot-2025-04-20-at-8.03.16\u202fAM-1024x898.jpeg 1024w, https:\/\/neuroticattorney.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/04\/Screenshot-2025-04-20-at-8.03.16\u202fAM-300x263.jpeg 300w, https:\/\/neuroticattorney.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/04\/Screenshot-2025-04-20-at-8.03.16\u202fAM-768x673.jpeg 768w, https:\/\/neuroticattorney.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/04\/Screenshot-2025-04-20-at-8.03.16\u202fAM.jpeg 1216w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-audio\"><audio controls src=\"https:\/\/neuroticattorney.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/04\/elevmus.mp3\"><\/audio><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\">Beck; &#8216;Elevator Music&#8217;<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-align-center\">&#8212;ooOoo&#8212;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I started writing this post on Thursday (04\/17\/2025) morning. It&#8217;s now Saturday (04\/19\/2025) morning, and I&#8217;m feeling quite marvelous today.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Meeting people, listening to music, fucking around, eating yummy foods; it just doesn&#8217;t get much better than this for me. Not much better indeed.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Jacques-Imo&#8217;s for dinner, an air boat ride on a bayou, brunch at the Court of Two Sisters&#8230; I even ended up at Tipitina&#8217;s for a record release party.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-gallery has-nested-images columns-default is-cropped wp-block-gallery-1 is-layout-flex wp-block-gallery-is-layout-flex\">\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"828\" height=\"1018\" data-id=\"11841\" src=\"https:\/\/neuroticattorney.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/04\/IMG_9363-1.jpeg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-11841\" srcset=\"https:\/\/neuroticattorney.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/04\/IMG_9363-1.jpeg 828w, https:\/\/neuroticattorney.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/04\/IMG_9363-1-244x300.jpeg 244w, https:\/\/neuroticattorney.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/04\/IMG_9363-1-768x944.jpeg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 828px) 100vw, 828px\" \/><figcaption 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Several reminded me of some of the best days of my life, and the amazing people that shared them with me.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I gotta go back this year. I&#8217;m thinking another Halloween. It just feels like there&#8217;s a fuck-ton of unfinished business and things for me in NOLA.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The Weeping Angel for one. I just gotta remember: The Hyams family mausoleum in Metairie Cemetery. 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