I remember that day. It was definitely in January. The sun was out, but the air was cold and still. We decided to meet at a motel that afternoon. Take off work a little early, so we could spend some naked time together.

I made the arrangements with the motel, while she diligently gathered a few things from the store. Some waters, some crisps, some cheese, some charcuterie (love that word, say it with me: “char-kud-erie”) – and lotions, a butt plug, and a vibrator. It’d been a while, so we were wanting to play.

It amazes me how my boy mind works at times. With all my focus and intention to take it slow, to undress this beautiful woman bit-by-bit, to slowly kiss and lick each area of her body being exposed in the process, my penis mind supplanted my boy mind, and I forgot about taking it slow.

As soon as she laid back on the bed, helped me with the zippers on her brown boots, I’d like to think there was a smooth moment or two with me unbuttoning her pants – pulling them down and off with her socks. Some gentle finger touches down her legs, with some light kisses on her thighs.

In terms of going slow, things started out well, but then: I could smell her scent; I could see the expression change on her face; I could see her ladylike shyness disappear letting her legs part open. My penis mind then takes over, and my attempt at slowness becomes a sense of urgency.

I’m hopping on one leg, taking off my pants, wanting to get on top of her as quickly as possible, wanting to get inside of her as quickly as possible, but then my boy mind comes back. This woman is absolutely stunning. It’s impossible not to pause, to take it in, to touch her face, to kiss her.

It’s been ages since feeling that electricity in my fingers. Touching her face, gently running a finger along her forehead, down the side of her face, touching/tickling her lips, allowing my full hand to then embrace her neck, feeling my fingers run through her hair at the base of her neck, while bringing her closer to me for a kiss – first gentle, then passionate.

Her kisses make me crave her more, make me want her more, so I go back to my penis mind. I go back to priority number one being to get her panties off, and me inside of her, as quickly as possible; which, at this point, I need to say something of great importance and profound value.

Grabbing hold of a woman’s panties, and pulling them down while she does that little lift-up move for me to get ’em around her ass, then sliding them down her legs, taking them off while watching her legs part open for me is one the greatest pleasures of my life. I shit you not. I’d kill or die for it. It’s up there with the witnessing the birth of my children, my first acid trip, getting a negative test from the clinic after a lost weekend.

I don’t go any further in undressing her. I can’t wait to penetrate her. I want to feel her. I gently move her body up on the bed, position myself between her legs, kiss her deeply one more time, then lift my body over her, some spit on my palm and fingers to make things easier, then guiding my cock inside of her. Feels good. Warm. I love that initial feeling of penetration, my head parting her lips, then some rocking back and forth as she starts to drip, then slowly pushing my length inside of her for the first of the day – reaching deep to hit that spot that makes us both tingle.

There are many ways to spend an afternoon. For me, I think spending naked time with a gorgeous woman hidden away in a motel room is one of the best ways; especially one who’s incredibly fun and adventurous, with an alluring smile, a sexy body, and a similar scrappy sense of humor.

Days like this should be fun. They should be memorable. Trying new things – new moves, new positions, new places to penetrate. Contrary to popular opinion, I believe familiarity makes for the best sex when it’s between two playful people who want to explore. Familiarity allows for confidence and comfort in a partner, which helps one push beyond their own comfort zone. This lovely woman and I had been searching for this familiarity for quite some time, but I think we found it in Room 207.

To be continued…